you must learn the difference between lust and love. They are two different things, my friend.
Lust is an obsession, a desire to obtain, to have, regardless of anything else.
But love is a relationship built on mutual affection, mutual understanding, and care for each other. A love that is given away without expecting something in return, a love that is done completely for the other person, without any ulterior motive. The desire for the other person's happiness, even if it comes without any